First Couple...

Yesterday I blogged about my first time in the LS and tonight I thought I would write about my first experience with a couple....no so in the LS. lol. Starts with a really good friend from HS. She and I have been friends since we were 14 years old. We spent lots of time together as teenagers and always had a lot of fun. She ended up married at age 17 with her 1st baby on the way. We kept in touch after HS off and on. By the time we actually started spending time again she was on her 3rd hubby. She is a beautiful sexy blonde...her hubby is 10 years younger than her. She and I started spending lots of time together going out on GIRLS NIGHT, working out together, hanging out with our fams. My hubby went out with them a couple of times to "vanilla" bars and hung out. They are not swingers but she has always seemed to be very curious about the whole thing. One night we decided to have them over for drinks and to hang out in the hot tub. We had no intentions of hooking up with them. We all had quite a bit to drink and she and I started dancing on the back porch in our swimsuits. She whispered to me that we should kiss each other just to freak the boys out. Well, I knew it would not freak out MrSiren but her hubby I guess. We started making out and it was a lot of fun. MrSiren was all eyes and really into it. Her hubby...not so much. He just kept talking about his "uncle's farm"...LMAO.

We decided then to take it to the hot tub. We all threw off our clothes and hopped in. Her hubby sat against the side and was obviously a little nervous. Again, she and I started kissing. She ended up fingering me while I fingered her in the hot tub. I went over to MrSiren and started kissing him while still playing with her. She went over to her hubby and we both started making out with our men. It got very hot and steamy in the hot tub.

We took it into the living room and ended up fucking our own hubbies on the couches in front of each other. MrSiren being the instigator that he is...pushed me over behind her as she was riding her hubby and I started kissing her while my hubby fucked me. I then started kissing on her ass and licking her as she rode her hubby. It was FUCKING HOT.

Unfortunately, her hubby never moved from the couch. She did all the work riding him and sucking him while MrSiren and I fucked all over the room. At the end of the night, they went home as if nothing happened. I did get a call from her later that week saying that it was just too much for them and that they could just never SWAP.

I know that she wants it but he could just not handle it. I do understand and I don't make any judgements. He is far too jealous to be part of the LS but sad that she will never have the chance to experience the openness and excitement that comes along with being part of this life.

First Time...

So, I have decided to get back to writing about how I got into this alternative LS called "swinging". After looking into the LS we decided that the 1st time should be a MFM experience. I had never been with another man since my hubby and I had been married. I am not one to cheat so I would have never considered this until we had agreed upon it. We had chatted with the SM we chose for a few weeks and decided it would be best to ask him to come to our place for our 1st "play" date. I was extremely nervous needless to say so I did have to get myself a little comfy. I drank a bit before he came over and quite a bit once he got there. We spent a lot of time hanging out on the back porch talking and then decided we would all get into the hot tub. He had brought his swim trunks since he was not sure what was going to happen either. LOL. We all got into the hot tub with swim trunks on but that did not last long. Of course, MrSiren being the instigator that he is, began rubbing and kissing on me and offering to our SM friend to do whatever he liked. They both began grabbing, rubbing, kissing all over me. Taking off my swimsuit. I was kissing my hubby while our friend was fingering me in the hot tub. He is a foot guy so he was rubbing on my feet too. It was wild and crazy but with the alcohol loosing things up for me and me just totally enjoying the moment it was VERY HOT! MrSiren left to get a drink and went inside. Since I was so into the moment, I kept on going with it. Next thing I know, I am hitting my head on the steps of the hot tub while our friend is fucking me like crazy. It was wild. I can say there was a lot more to the evening but due to the length of the blog and the alcohol clouding the experience. All I can say is that there is a running joke for the last few years that "I can't feel my teeth" is the sign that I have had enough alcohol to let all my inhibitions go and fly with the moment. Turned out to be an amazing experience and we have not turned back since.

My 1st DVD in the Adult Biz

So, I know all of you have been dying to know about how my time went in Tampa, FL with NaughtyAlysha. I was so excited and nervous about going to meet Alysha & Adam (her hubby). We left on Friday morning and headed to Tampa...once we landed we waiting at baggage for them to arrive.

They picked us up in their SUV and they were exactly what I had hoped they would be. Very down to earth and the most kick ass people I had ever met. We talked all the way to the condo we were staying in. They let MrSiren & I have some time alone to chill after our trip and we planned to start shooting our 1st scene that evening. MrSiren & I walked around and decided to go have some drinks at Bahama Breeze. What a cool place. That evening Alysha & Adam came back and brought all their equiptment. OMG...I was in Toy Heaven. She had the biggest collection of dildos I had ever seen...not to mention the biggest dildos I had ever seen. I was WAY EXCITED!

Alysha told me to pick some out and we got dressed for our 1st scene together. I was a little nervous but she was so cool that the nervousness went away and we had so much fun doing to 1st scene together.

After a short break, we shot the 2nd scene and it was my turn with the toys on my own. I had such a good time trying out all those amazing dildos. Trust me the water works were on...hehe!

The next day we started shooting in the afternoon and wanted to get our work done quickly so we could have some play time. The 3rd scene was also with me on my own but this time I decided to get brave and go for some bigger toys...WOW! Shot that scene on the kitchen cabinet and I know it turned out extremely HOT!

The 4th scene was shot on the stairs and uh-oh Adam got shot in the camera when I squirted so much. You know I was liking it and think he kinda enjoyed it himself.

The last scene was with Alysha & me and damn it was the best. I am so not going to reveal all the cool things we got to do together. You will just have to find out when the DVD comes out in the next couple of months.....

It was an amazing experience and I cannot wait to do it again!!!!! Thanks my sexy friend NaughtyAlysha and her wonderful man for a great time!

Strange Experience....WTH?

Ok...so far my blog has been along the lines of my past experiences and I will be going back to those. I just had to share a crazy ass story with you all.

As many of you know, my hubby loves to watch me have sex with other men. He is completely straight but he is an extreme voyeur. As he says, porn cannot compare to watching your own wife live.

So, we decided to have a new guy come over to fuck me. He said that he had done this before and we were really looking for a bull. Someone who could come in and take control and fuck me the way I like to be fucked. I am a submissive woman in bed and love a man to take control and fuck me hard and deep. I want someone who is well endowed to satisfy me.

We always ask for pics ahead of time and we always verify that the guy is legit before we ask him to our home. So, mrsiren did what he could to verify that this single guy was legit and what I would enjoy.

My rule is that if you are late then it better not be more than 30 minutes or you are not worth it to me. It is not to be bitchy but more as a matter of respect for my time. I don't have tons of extra time and why make a lady wait when she is ready to fuck...hehe! You tell me if you had that chance, wouldn't you show up on time?

So, this guy was already 45 minutes late but had called so we decided to go ahead and give him a chance. I was very horny and hubby was ready to see me fuck. When the SM came to our home, he sat out in his car without coming to the door for at least 10 minutes. Once he finally came in, he introduced himself to my hubby at the door as I sat on the bed dressed in a sexy dress, no panties, and heels. I was ready for some fun.

The guy came into my room and asked my hubby if he could use the restroom. Well of course, no worries there. He looked over at me...pointed his finger and said, "You are beautiful." He then proceeded to go into our master bathroom and shut the door. We could hear the water running and thought, ok he is using the restroom or maybe washing his hands.

After laying in the bed for about 5 minutes, hubby and I started playing with each other. As I said, we were horny. We waited and waited. We could hear cabinets open & close and water running the entire time. We looked at each other like WTF is this guy doing? Of course, I thought...is he stealing our meds, is he sick, is he taking a shower? WTH?

My hubby went to the door and knocked asking if he was ok. He said, "Just freshening up." WHAT? For one thing he was in his mid-20's, who says that? We gave him a couple more minutes and then hubby went back to the door and asked again what was going on...the guy said, "Just one more minute."

He came out of the restroom with different clothes on, his hair was wet, and by this time...I had lost all interest. Like I said, I don't wait. He saw that I was smoking a cigarette and said, "Oh, good you smoke." He then asked hubby for a beer or glass of wine. He was told ahead of time that he was coming over to fuck...not to shower and hang out. We did not even know this guy. It was a NSA fuck for fun...nothing more. My hubby told him, "We are not in the mood anymore.." The guy did not even flinch...he said oh ok and turned to me and said..nice to meet you and headed out the door.

It was SO weird. He did not even seem to care I was there. Did he come over to just wash up? Was he even interested? Was he nervous? It was just very creepy & odd. Of course hubby and I had a great time that night together and had a good laugh.

So, that is not the worst part. When I got into the shower the next morning, I picked up my razor and it had lots of black hair in it. Without thinking, I assumed that my hubby had used my razor and asked him not to use it anymore cause now it was dull. He said, "I never use your razors...I did not use it". At that point I realized what had happened. The guy had used my razor to shave his balls. GROSS! He had left all the pubic hair in the razor & it was all under my shaving cream. It was so disgusting. Who the fuck would do something like that?

Totally fucked up...don't you agree? Dude, really...get a fucking life.

How I got into the swinging lifestyle...

So many of you have asked how we got into the swinging lifestyle. Well it all started about 3 years ago. My hubby and I had always been sexual creatures but of course with a family and me having children, it was not always as wild and crazy as it is now. Three years ago we had decided we were done having children and we really began to focus on our relationship with each other. My hubby had always wanted to see me fucking another man but of course that idea was completely crazy to me at the time....damn how time changes everything. We decided to explore the idea and looked into the LS. (ie...swinger world) We were told about a website and also a local swinger club. We checked out the site and decided to join. We went to the "old school" type of swingers club. It is quite a hilarious story but I will save that for another blog. Eventually we found a single male on the site that was already part of the LS and invited him over. Needless to say, it was an amazing experience cause as you say, the rest is history and who knows what the future holds...:) BTW, joining the LS was not my idea..it was MrSiren's idea. Can't say that I have any regrets and would like to thank him personally for leading me into this wild world we call life.

Grew up your middle class girl...

I grew up in your typical middle class family. Mother & father had been HS sweethearts. I have 1 brother. They are very conservative and I was always the black sheep of the family. I found anyway to break away from the bullshit. Learned the only way I could live my life was to lie to them and go for it. I was raised with an artistic mother who suffered from anxiety and who was held back by a man who grew up in a Southern Baptist family. It was an interesting mix. Both my parents are very intelligent and they decided when they were married that they did not believe in religion. I was raised an atheist. It was a confusing existence. To be raised by parents who were not religious but had the morals of a very religious family. My mother was a sexual woman who tried hard to keep in shape but she also had to adhere to my father's conservative views. I would hear them having sex as a kid through the vents of my room...lol. Your typical story..when I was 13 I found sex pics of my mother with my father..they were polaroids. They did not ever talk to me about sex. I was the girl. My brother was treated very differently..he was the man. I explored my sexuality in my own way. I masturbated all the time, I kissed a girl when I was 9. My first sexual experience with a boy was oral and I loved it. I could not get enough of it. I had to hide my sexual existence from my family. By the time they found out I was not a virgin, I was in college. I had already been with over 20 men by that time. My sexuality was my own. It is something that has always empowered me. Made me feel free and like a woman.

Welcome to my blog....

Hope you enjoy all the interesting stories and adventures that myself and my hubby call our life.

We are a happily married couple with a freaky side. We entered the swinger lifestyle a little over 2 years ago. Our lives have changed drastically over the last 2 years and I can say only for the better. As all couples go through "drama", so do we but we always deal with it and learn from our experiences. MrSiren is my soul mate and best friend. He is the one man who gets me.

Throughout this blog, I will be telling you about my experiences in the lifestyle and how I have come to where I am today. A confident, sexual woman. A web cam host & an aspiring porn star. This is not something that happened overnight. It is something that has taken years to get to and realization of who I really am as a person. Hope you enjoy the adventures.